One of the quotes that i recite in my mind over and over is : “Be don’t become”
Most of us live life in becoming someone, in this race of becoming someone we almost forget to listen to our inner voice and talent inside us.
Will my life be more enjoyable if i try to become sober in front of you, will my blog be more enjoyable if i try to write things to pamper you. No it will not be. If we try to be different than we will end up being controlled by others. Being yourself means you have lot of control on your life.
Life can only be fun when we are freely able to express our true nature rather than becoming someone else.
I also found a technique to “Be” :
Be aware. Be aware of what others tell you to think. Be aware of what others want you to believe. Don’t give that choice to someone else. (Taoism)
The choices others make are never justification for the choices you make. (Taoism)